My ex is better than my girlfriend I didn't have the patience for my ex either. When people made comments when they were dating, she would shut them down with "I thought you knew better than to judge people based on looks", or "I don't appreciate that shallow statement". She is way prettier than me. I haven’t felt that blindsided, betrayed and hurt in a very long time. For context: I (M22) dated Alex (F21) for a few My ex got into a new relationship very soon after our breakup, causing him to just abandon me once he had someone better lined up. Not now, not when we were first dating, not ever. You seem like a great girlfriend. Actually a better cook, better in bed, and wants to be with me. That doesn't necessarily mean that you're the better match for him. My 39 F ex-husband 43 M cheated on me with my brother 44 M At this point, I don't think of them any differently than I do my male friends, or at least I don't think I do. Dealing with a break up is something we all have to learn to do in our own way. ”"The Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint" is a new 8-week, i As my girlfriend gave me all the reasons of why my ex was prettier and sexier than her, all I could think of how much I love my girlfriend and how sexy she is. Best of luck to you. Everyone has a mix of attractive and unattractive qualities. Yes, they mean it in the moment. I recently found out that my boyfriend actually treated his ex better than me. She knows this and continues to do so, and even gets mad at me whenever I bring it up. e. “It might be in their wallet, on their desk, or somewhere more hidden than that TL:DR-my GF’s parents treat her like garbage and treat me like I’m heaven sent and I think they might be up to something sketchy. Well, after studying lots of first-hand data, we’ve found this to be mostly true. my ex feels the same way. Yeah, like OP comes with his sob story, hoping for support, what the heck did be expect ? The guys cheats on his girlfriend, which by the looks of it, was financially supporting him, and then goes into full surprised Pikachu face when it backfires. The only thing I can think of is that I have a better job, but that's because I'm a nerd that studied math so of course I would. I don't want to see this woman at all due to our history, but my girlfriend ignores this. It didn’t even pop up in my mind that much, of his better looking ex. They were talking about a new guy her sister is dating. When it comes to clothing please always dress how you feel best and more comfortable. Also my GF talked to my ex's twin sister's ex girlfriend, who told her that you never fall out of love with a blank twin. When your ex says this, they do mean it because they truly think there’s someone better out there for them. I guess money wins this time. You do not need to be better than her, just the best you can be. That’s fine, I’m my boyfriend’s type. 2. We were long distance though, and a couple of weeks ago she left me for someone else. She's sweet and understanding and I just want to be clear that she isn't doing any of this to make me feel bad on purpose. and he already has a new girlfriend. One surefire sign that your ex is doing better without you is when they don’t share anything on social media. Everything was freakishly clean. Maybe one day it can work out, but thats not now, and her recovery Bro, my girlfriend I just found out was only with me because I was the only person that respected her and gave her the best sex in her 49 years. My ex gf had same reaction when she dumbed me 8 years throw away just like that when asked why she just told me she didn't love me. They had broken up and she had completely moved on from him and looks amazing! But also, what my ex cares about literally doesn’t matter! On the flip side, I’m sure my ex is also far more into his girlfriend now than me because I know I’m not his type either. We see her around sometimes, and it always ruins the day for my girlfriend, who then ruins it for everyone else. You are being WAY too nice. There are many reasons why relationships fall apart, but I do treasure the good memories I got from those relationships. she'll understand that as, "i'm just good for sex to you?" note: don't say that statement with any inflection in your voice keep your tone cool, calm, and collected bc that way, she will take it as sincere and NOT as an emotional outburst like hers. The great part about my ex being my ex is that his preferences aren’t my I waited about four weeks after breaking up with my ex to date my current girlfriend. Since you have two options, it’s clear Bigger ≠ better. My current girlfriend of 2 months got out of a bad long-distance relationship about a year ago. Hi. our relationship was way more intense and stronger than the last Will my ex girlfriend come back? Learn ways to avoid unhealthy habits, like focusing on her social media accounts, and begin open conversation with her. You can only remind her often how much you care about her, love her, how beautiful you think she is, believe in her, etc etc, but you can in no way convince her she is good enough for you. whether My ex was exactly my type, it was like she was handcrafted to be the most attractive woman possible to me. I understand better than you can possibly know. After about 7 months of her being so insecure that giving her a compliment started an argument, she got worse rather than better. She ended up dating my doppelgänger and I kinda laughed it off. Likewise, I have ex that made my ex feel insecure, physically or financially. She’s younger than me and she can definitely do a lot better but Idk why she picked me and loved me. but then again it was my 2nd heartbreak just when I said after the first I won't let my guard down on anyone . Well good for them. When i told her she went to far she tried saving it by telling me i am attractive and such. I am not a princess who needs saving. We become depressed, anxious, and despondent when we feel like our best job/relationship/life situation is behind us and we lose hope for our futures. My ex girlfriend left me for this bad boy who is much better looking than me . However, that “in the moment” caveat at the end is really important here because some people incorrectly assume that when an ex says they looks are looks. My ex got into a new relationship very soon after our breakup, causing him to just abandon me once he had someone better lined up. She’s not handling it well, still. Some are better than us, some are worse. Me trying to be something I’m not is not real. Interesting that you mentioned how my mom is gonna be a monster regardless of who i decide to be with, because she was exactly the same way with my ex girlfriend. Reply reply Oh boo hoo my girlfriend makes more money than me and I'm insecure about myself now Reply reply My(M32) wife’s(F27) ex-boyfriend sent me a video of him having sex with my wife , after he found out we’re having a baby. After a couple of days I realized it might be because her ex is black. Block him, delete his info, and tell everyone the truth. After all who let's their grandfather convince them to break up with their girlfriend then goes on to complain to her about missing her? He was too weak I (28f) dated my ex (27m)for 3 and a half years. She sees him once a week. I can't help but get jealous. I’ve always loved the idea of not being what people expect me to be. Don’t feel needy because we all have needs that need to be met and yours aren’t really unreasonable. He treated you like crap. "And we do that because we want to be resilient and because it hurts so terribly to go through a breakup," he explains, adding it's not uncommon to try to move on But if you’ve broken up with someone and they’re happier without you, they’ll cut off contact completely rather than trying to maintain a relationship on the sidelines. I feel like I’m getting Why is my ex doing better than me? Your ex doesn’t necessarily have to have a better life to be doing better than you. Maybe you’re wondering, “Is my ex-girlfriend testing me or ex-boyfriend?” If so, the following reasons will help you better understand your ex’s behavior: Your ex is trying to get back with you. It hurts. She's an abusive, selfish person who I should of had the strength to leave long ago. And there’s a reason that your girlfriend’s relationship with your girlfriend’s ex didn’t work out. He chose you for a reason and in my personal opinion there is much more than just looks that contributes to how attractive a person is. The 5 possible reasons why your ex changed overnight and is like a completely different person now are: 1. My ex's girlfriend is actually really cool with me and we've become good My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year, and moved in together during lockdown. My ex treats his new girlfriend better than me - Why he treats his new girlfriend better. My ex bragged to me that I was so much better than his exes and would do all kinds of things for me that were rediculous and insane (sleeping on the floor, paying for everything, taking me on expensive trips, meeting his family when his other My friend has this superior complex where she thinks she's better than everyone else. Margaret ( 00:48 ): What a terrible fear. Reply reply brokenheartedpeanut • Thank you, that was encouraging af. will keep it short. 7M Likes, 23. I feel your pain tremendously. By taking the time to understand each other's needs and perspectives, couples may develop better communication strategies and create a stronger foundation for the relationship. Offended that Your Ex Might Think Their New Partner Is More Attractive Than You! And finally, this is another feeling that stems from you having a bruised ego. Okay so yesterday my gf and I were hanging out at my house and we were just chilling and watching T. I hated asking but we are getting serious and I want to know what I’m walking into. and I can't force him. I am seeing someone casually but frankly I don’t find him nearly as attractive as my ex, and emotionally, I am nowhere near over him. He had seen her a lot before, but since she moved in he has really taken to her. Not gonna lie, seeing photos of my ex and his new gf has made me feel so much anger and hurt, despite having a perfect loving boyfriend. After he dumped me, I decided I really want to focus on my self. I don't want to fuck my ex though - I want my boyfriend's brains/personality/looks with a bigger dick. He probably thought that you would never be able to think that he's as good or better than your ex . I’m standing in line to buy food from a shop (covid lockdowns in my country had everyone going crazy) anyway - this very attractive female and her partner walk out of a shop right in front of me. he isn’t my first, in fact it was my fourth relationship and it’s comparable out of all of my previous relationship. Why did my ex change for his new girlfriend? My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year, we have known each other for over 10 years. She said it was cause it came up on people you may know and they had a mutual friend and wanted to see who it was. He broke up with me because he “didnt have time for a girlfriend” and here he is with a brand new one. Are you going to mope that she's better than you? Or are you gonna earn your keep and be happy? Reply reply QT3_14159 Don't fall into the same hole my ex did, it isn't fun for If his own girlfriend isn't going to treat him with the basic level of respect due to any human being, why should they? Jokes about him being smaller and less skilled than her ex, i. It doesn't enter my insecurity calculations at all. That motivated me to exercise and eat healthy. Then I looked at her search history. Ex girlfriend’s friends and family never liked me but we were in the relationship for 7 years and we were happy as we understood each other well and we knew what we both wanted from the relationship. Before then it was very amicable good conversation as we broke up due to distance and we didnt feel there was a reason to stop being friends. I would have come with a remote if I were to be controlled. If she is telling you you're good then do not worry about like that. Then she proceeds to tell me she used to stalk my brother on instagram and she found him good looking, but she stopped when she met me. Maybe I had to leave the A lot of times the new girlfriend will be a lot better than the old one in a very specific way. She doesn’t want to be nice because she’s worried it will give you the impression that she still wants to be with you, even though Regardless of how deeply you feel for your current partner, you may find yourself thinking about your ex every now and then. Sounds narcissistic but really, date yourself. She was what i considered a "high quality woman". I’m at a dead end job. If it’s unsuccessful, it Not OP, but in my experience, I miss the good memories of my ex-boyfriends. She then told me the size of her ex, which I figured would be bigger than me, but this guy was just plain massive, and that didn't help me out at all. I still want my first love to be happy and well, and I am glad he is in a happy relationship last I heard. I’m 5’7 and she's 5’8-9. 0 . She deserves much better than a boyfriend who's in love with another woman and just settled for her. You mentioned they both like physical therapy. And I do find her attractive. She is constantly putting people down. The truth is that your ex is treating his new partner better than he treated you because your ex is acting on positive emotions. She’s told me he’s bigger than me. My ex got a new girlfriend a little less than a month after he broke up with me. If you have to be around your ex your expression better show disinterest and boredom. However, not even for a second did I think about any of my ex's bodies nor make any comparisons. I’ll be better than your next. Hate to see it. And this is in many ways. 14 Reply. For years I relied heavily on my personality and I was a place holder at best. I feel your pain, but I would rather be Lone than dmwazte my time on zomone that would My ex’s new girlfriend is better than me . It was completely effortless and we hit it off right away and conversation just flowed. A few days ago, one such friend posted on my Facebook wall. She goes to a top university, has won gold medals in sports, was captain of the marching band, and has higher grades than me. He has told me that she was toxic a couple of times and he regretted being with her but I don't really know what he has done for her. According to Edwards, "The fact our ex is If you feel more comfortable with writing than talking, you might consider taking up journaling to release some of your negative emotions surrounding still missing my ex. Reply reply VeganVeggies My ex's girlfriend Venmos him daily for drinks, food, ubers, trips, gifts etc. This message that OP is less-than will be played back to his girlfriend again, and again, and again. Idk how he thinks the "better" option for his girlfriend is him stringing her along My Mom is FAR more conventionally attractive than my Dad. It was my ex’s ex. My 39 F ex-husband 43 M cheated on me with my brother 44 M and now he seems to be in a serious This one is pretty obvious, but if your partner still keeps photos of their ex around, they’re not over them. I don't think I could just leave my girlfriend, that would devastate her and she deserves much better. I think people who constantly bring up ex's are idiots. You can only love one person at a time. The fact that he treats every other woman in his life better than you says something about how he sees you. Oh, that feeling. Her sister said “8 inches”. I am surprised I was able to attract her. Think it’s safe to say my ex really gave my high standards now. It’s been months since it happened. There’s a reason your partner isn’t drawn to that ex-partner like they were before. With my new gf I still think she's My ex left me for someone else a year ago. My heart shattered when I saw her, she’s so much Be careful what you say during a break up, because there's a good chance your ex can — and will — do better than you. What do I do? Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a month now. She is very insecure and should work on fixing that herself or with therapy/counseling. But one day, when we were taking a walk outside, she started talking about the one day when I gave her head in the backseat of the car I split up from my ex-girlfriend just over a year ago, although for some time after we did fool about (about six months). 😂😂😂 #familyfeud #steveharvey”. Stay busy When you miss your ex, it is easy to stay home feeling sorry for yourself, but remaining productive can take your mind off your feelings of sadness. This is the most common reason he or she checks up on you. helped me graduate and go to college, everything. By thinking about your past (your ex) and combining it with your ex’s new partner, you are trapping yourself in a never-ending He is with you because he wants to be. He clearly treats her so much better than he ever treated me. They dated for a year and their break up was so messy. " My(26) girlfriend(22) is best friends with her ex. I just wanna understand why they always seem to do better in the next relationship. I'll get straight to the point. She's also a little bit taller than me as well. My ex always hated my slim jeens but now that I moved away from the apartment where we both lived it’s so freeing to dress how I like. So I would go find a better man, because there is one out there. Today I’m a much better man & me and my ex have been single for some time & we’ve become good friends & neither of us have been with anyone since but the honesty is idk if she cares for me but I’m in love with her still & it’s torture not being able to say my My ex and I have remained friends up until the point that she started seeing someone new. My recent Ex was also my first girlfriend for the past 2 years. if someone doesn’t love you just for the way you are, you don’t need them. For instance last week she got back around almost 11pm and only messaged me then. The issue being that treating the ex better than you is a red flag. The best thing to do, when trying to ascertain whether or not His new girlfriend is prettier than me. Maybe my ex and I can actually work things out. She and this guys girlfriend were also friends, after she did the deed she came back to mine and told me about how we should maybe get back together, this continued for a while but I knew eventually that it happened. Craig ( 00:00 ): Today we're going to talk about, I'm scared my ex will find someone better than me while I'm in no contact. I'm better than her at fixing things, and getting I was better than your ex. I don't want my ex back. Now I see my ex he is totally a different person with his new girlfriend, and I assume he was better with his previous partner too. It can be really tough to see your ex dating someone you think is ugly, especially if you still have feelings for them . I understand she feels safe and secure I just dunno how to go about dealing with it. I asked him to grow out his hair for years and he never did till he started dating her. My anxiety has driven away many a relationship. Your gf is the ONLY woman Ultimately you need to stay true to who you are.  English not first language As the title says, my (M31) girlfriend (F28) of + 4 years has become best-friends with my ex (F29). My ex is so gorgeous. Seems like a red flag if I ever saw one. Recently, she's been comparing me to her ex a lot, but as the title says, in a good way. Sometimes it’s better to just shut the fuck up. Seeing the man you love with another woman is enough to break anyone's heart. My ex is treating his new gf so much better. Everything from her body to her style and mannerisms was just everything I wanted as far as looks are concerned. My mind and focus is on my girlfriend, and there is no other woman in the world besides her. According to relationship and etiquette expert and author April Masini, "When you're comparing yourself to your ex's new partner or your current partner's last partner, it's because you want With that in mind, here are some signs your partner has left their ex in the past, and that you likely have nothing to worry about. At first it wasn't a big deal and felt more like she was joking about everyone and everything. She is prettier and way more educated than I am, she is doing a PhD and I didn’t even finish my associates degree, worst part? She is younger than me! Several years, they seem to be such a good match. But I don’t understand why she treated her ex so much better even though he was a piece of shit. Here’s what you do: cut him out of your life completely. We have a son together. My girlfriend asked “Is he black?” and her sister said “yes”. ) someone on here said to fall in love with yourself. It could be a sign they've grown too cynical from their experiences and are holding you at arm's length now, or they just aren't that into you. We were married for 6 years and divorced since March of this year. Being unable to value myself, I needed external validation and for a while my ex gave it I then moved on to a new guy with in a few weeks, rookie mistake, I found myself constantly comparing the new guy to my ex like all the time, eventually however I realized that I started to love the other guy more then my ex. My relationship of 6 years ended about 2 months ago, and I feel that I am still very far from getting over it. Healthy, happy relationships are very present-focused, with an eye to the future. Own your shitty reaction and refocus on why you love your girlfriend. I make a point to skirt the subject if it ever were to come up even if he asked me. 4 Reply. We are both 19. The “upgraded” concern, however, also tells me more about the exact work we need to do togeth My ex is wrong for me. . My ex-girlfriend slept with one of my close friends soon after we broke up, he however was in a long term relationship. I always compare my ex to them and think that she’s better. (Self esteem, confidence, etc. If you decide to work on the relationship with your current girlfriend, you’ll have to stop thinking that your ex is better than your girlfriend and that you love her more. Be careful about getting back together too soon, though. I completely stopped thinking about other women because she was just that perfect to me. When those emotions wane, so too will your ex’s nice attitude. They go out to eat, see movies etc. We broke up largely because of how my mother treated her, and I thought that my mother would have learnt from her mistakes since then but apparently she did not, as she still behaving the same way, just much That there's nothing I'm better than her at. We are very close and I really think we have a bright future together. I’ve asked her what I could do to improve or do differently in the past, before she told me her ex was better. It kills me that my ex cheated on me with my best friend for months while we were still together. TLDR: My girlfriend is best-friends with my ex who made inappropriate (?) comments to me in private. My ex too said to me that I don't have the right to tell him why he treated me this way In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a viewer who tells me “my girlfriend’s ex is better than me. Very cool girl, humble, considerate, a bit of sass, very strong and independent, smart, beautiful, fashionable, very loyal, confident, down to have fun, adventurous, and a As therapist and relationship expert Ken Page, LCSW, tells mbg, there are different ways people pretend to be over someone, whether they're lying to themselves, their ex, or other people in their lives. Last weekend I overheard my girlfriend and her sister talking on the phone. Your focus should be the relationship you have with your bf. My Ex Treats His New Girlfriend Better: Why He Treats The New Girlfriend Better "My ex has a girlfriend and I want him back. I broke up with my ex partially because I had feelings for my current girlfriend. It hurts, but I’m doing my best to be happy for him. Yours are better than the ex's, clearly. End of this month I'm going on Erasmus to her country. Everytime I see her, I kinda have to remind myself that we are dating, and I'm not just droolin' over some surreality. She did asked me out first, kissed me first, and she asked me to be her girlfriend too, i was in cloud 9. But whenever she narrates her experience of the places she visited and how she wants us to go there together, all I feel is how I am so much inferior than her boyfriend I know my ex and my best friend are seeing each other behind my back. The song's single version was a live version, recorded at Pantages Theatre, Hollywood, from the soundtrack of There are some people I find more attractive than my girlfriend, including this woman. Even worse, I find myself thinking about this ex’s body/looks, which is the exact thing my girlfriend is afraid of. less of a man, will just circulate in an echo-chamber. SMH do better Before my now ex and I got together, we flirted and I thought she was very very sexy, but she was off limits due to being friends with my girlfriend at the time. Only way I can completely move on is if I can really find a girl better than my ex, which is very difficult as it’s hard to find both a good looking girl and If you feel anxiety around never doing better than your ex, then you can take that anxious energy and funnel it into becoming the next greatest iteration of yourself. Asker +1 y. He has a better job now and an expensive, beautiful home. My girlfriend is still the one I want to be with, whom I love most, there is so much more about her than just looks. Let's assume you are objectively "better" than your ex's new girlfriend in some way. Then my girlfriend excitedly asked “How big is his dick?”. I think what’s interesting is I wouldn’t even say I know any of my ex-boyfriends anymore. Personally, my love language is gift giving so I legit felt like my ex loved the new girl more than me when we were dating because he gave his new girlfriend more gifts than he ever did to me. And NOTHING real or meaningful (like a solid relationship), can grow from bs. It seems that her admitting that he was better than me in bed is was what it took to get her to admit that sex with me could be better. My heart shattered when I saw her, she’s so much prettier than me (I’m very insecure about myself), has a way better job and her family works within the What bothers me most about this is that she is so pretty. But I wouldn't mind that at all. I had a crush on her for years. Stimulating your girlfriend during sex will always be better and more pleasurable than having a larger size Imagine if he said “yours is a bit more lose than my ex, I like it like that because tight ones hurts” Reply reply More replies More replies. She always just said she was happy with it, though I could tell she wasn’t “crazy” about it. same with me, I tried to have a decent talk with my ex even though my ex knew a lot about me and that, I thought it was the perfect relationship. The superficial narcissistic ones anyway. He has moved on and found someone better-looking than me, and I am frustrated that I haven’t done the same. We all get to have our own preferences. In general, getting older, more experienced, and with better self awareness has meant increasing improvement. MY JAMAICAN MOM CONFESSED MY EX-GIRLFRIEND IS BETTER THAN MY GIRLFRIEND I (23M) just saw my new girlfriend's (23F) naked body for the first time a few days ago. I went to her house to officially break it off, and was wrecked for months after. Right now, your ex-girlfriend might be saying that she has found someone better than you, but in most cases, the new guy will usually just be filling in the emotional gaps that you left open in the relationship. When I think about it, she's the heaviest girl I've dated. The worst part is that she talks about how she loves my body, how she does find me sexy and cool, how I'm a great lover. During my relationship I constantly thought about how every other girl was better than me and that my ex could really find someone 1000x better than me. I saw pictures of them kissing last weekend. That will only drain your energy and it's really for nothing since she's his ex for a reason. Is this normal? EDIT: She refuses to read this anymore until she gets a female perspective. Now she says she wants constant reinforcement that she is better than my ex. Margaret. As long as he's with me only nah, my comeback would be, "and my ex was better OUTSIDE the bedroom," to shut her the fuck up. My gf, however, said that it was important for me to know. My ex always told me I was the perfect guy, that she wouldn't ever find someone better than me. 2) They don’t share anything on social media. No — they even transform themselves into a prince charming, far from your reality. i know it might not mean a lot but your authentic self is what matters most. The mix of negative and positive is confusing me and thus I keep thinking about her Had a girlfriend like this but more. I'd never cheat but I've been having sex dreams about the second most recent ex lately (the one with the big dick) and I know he'd be dtf if I ever wanted (he lives a 5 minute drive away). They’re always looking for someone better, it doesn’t matter who they’re with. I think I’m prettier than his current gf, but I don’t think he see her as a downgrade. Tiffany, from what I see, my ex’s new girlfriend does put up with more crap than I did, which makes her a submissive person and apparently she has low self-esteem too. Now, he has a girlfriend that he met literally right after we divorced. She mentioned how her ex (who she called manipulative many times) "didn't meet up with her because he was always depressed and that made him lame" and in the same context mentioned how I'm "still not meeting up with her because I care for my family a lot which she says she appreciates in a sense but it upsets her that I can't do things like sleep over". Treat me like a joke, and I’ll leave you like it’s funny. Maybe my new guy isn’t better than my ex after all. your right that people should let someone being bigger then them effect them this much but it does. V. It is for me and I’ll tell you why. They are your ex cos you aren't My girlfriend’s ex is bigger than me and it’s messing with my head. Keep present and value yourself. " Does that sound like something you've been thinking or saying recently? If it is, you're stuck in a pretty miserable position. It's just not something that matters enough to talk about for me. You can’t have two people to choose from and string them along for your selfish gain. We have a great relationship and she I love her like crazy. She looked up her ex. Says they went to see the Batman movie and didn’t know it’d be that long. i bring this up to him at least twice a week now. If you see your ex doing much better than you immediately after a breakup, you need to realize that it’s still not long enough for them to start So you may not be the best she's ever have. He has everything going for him. whether it’s remembering opinion is subjective or focusing on living my life, you can’t compare yourself to others. that is worst than being told that an ex was better in bed than you were. You need to understand that your ex can’t do badly right after This is the same for me. But I was at ease. He made her his profile picture. He introduced her to his family and friends, shows her off on Instagram, and basically posts her everywhere. So she apologised and worked on being a better girlfriend. So, while your partner may have been happy with their ex at the time, it'll be clear they have moved on when they Now my girlfriend sometimes talks about the trips that she and her ex took. That's the equivalent of saying "you are really hot and sex was great! but my ex-girlfriend was hotter and had bigger tits" 3 . Basically grew up together in a way. My being hung up on the ex was a symptom of my personality disorder/childhood trauma. ever since then i’ve become practically obsessed with her and appearances in general. Your ex just needs to have lost feelings before you because a lack of romantic feelings prevents your ex from becoming nostalgic, sad, anxious, and hurt. And he’s taking her on all these trips that we planned on going together. " Another added: "She had absolutely no reason to say that, or bring up sex with her ex at all. I find my current girlfriend stunningly beautiful, and she's literally a million times better at being a loving partner than my ex. I wasted 6 years of marriage with her. One replied: "She seems to lack empathy and may still be hung up on her ex. “My Boyfriend Still Talks To His Ex?” (What To Do About It) “Will I Find Someone Better Than My Ex?” We’ve Got Your Answer. I feel like I wasn’t pretty enough or interesting enough to be introduced to. Fast forward some years and we both ended up single and I asked her out. I had to sit back and realize that a part of me was wasn’t completely over her and looking back, when I first started talking to my ex it was different than talking to most girls. The only thing that makes someone treat you better is because they And my next relationship was better, because I had better relationship skills and a better idea of what I wanted in a relationship. You were fine at the start but continuing to prove how dumb you really are made everyone hate you now. We dated for over four years. All she did was look pretty and he would fall head over heels for her. My best advice is to find a hobby; everyone treats life as Even if you find someone who seems better than your ex, that doesn’t mean everything will be smooth sailing. People often ask me about what to do when an ex in a new relationship, and "Girlfriend Is Better" is a 1984 song by new wave band Talking Heads, from their fifth studio album Speaking in Tongues. Her sister mention his name was “Jamal”. Positive emotions give your ex the motivation to be nice, approachable, and happy to try new things. There was nothing you could have done to make your ex treat you better. The truth is she was more willing than me to do My GF went through a similar thing when we got together and TBH, she is hotter than my ex in every way (from brains, to body, to personality). If you’re constantly obsessing over your ex’ new partner—especially when your ex downgraded to somebody a million times worse than you, you must first understand that what you’re doing is self-destructive. The worst feeling comes when you see your ex with a new partner whom they seem to treat better than you. Don’t pretend to know her heart better than she does. To make it worse, I'm very good freinds with my ex and both my current and ex have to hang out with me at social events and stuff. I (30F) divorced my ex (37M) because he cheated on me with other women. Don't beat yourself up about how pretty his ex was compared to you. But I can't get this issue out of my mind. ` This left a bad My brother is imo better looking than me. Can't necessarily speak for him but that's my perspective as a guy. Not you. And frankly, if your partner is pining for this very attractive person from the past, you probably shouldn’t be I never mention my ex to my current bf. I don’t compare myself to the new guy, but if I had The fact that you believe your ex has upgraded to a newer, better version of you should be a red flag. Needless to say, people in the comments thought the girlfriend was being completely inappropriate. She was really pretty and an even better personality. about a month ago my boyfriend showed me an old picture he had of his girlfriend. Girlfriend mad at me because my ex is supposedly “prettier” than her So my girlfriend and I were talking about one of my previous relationships, not about the person but the experience I had in it which wasn’t bad and the relationship didn’t end badly we were just two different people, so I would never say anything bad about her. out and just spending time with each other and other dreams where I'm telling her to leave me alone and that I'm better off without her. My ex doesn't even exist in my mind as a sexy or pretty person anymore. 2 of those years he was unemployed and I supported him and paid for everything. In my case, my ex moved on fairly quickly more so for the rebound relationship so she doesn’t have to deal with the stress of the breakup. If his family ill-treats you, that is another issue. As much as it sucks, when I tried talking to other girls I completely felt this. But at the end of the day, that’s all that it would be – me trying. TL;DR - My ex was much kinder, more loving, and more understanding than my current gf. They started dating right after we broke up and my exes life seems so much better. Be careful what you say during a break up, because there's a good chance your ex can — and will — do better than you. She just completely ghosted me for two weeks. Photo by Hannes Wolf on Unsplash. My Girlfriend’s (F19) treat me (M22) waaaaay better than they treat her. I’m confused. Relationships take work, commitment, and a whole lot of patience. She says things like how much better I am than her ex, how much better I treat her than her ex, etc. At first I was like, great! He likes her! But nowhe won’t let me pet him anymore, he rarely sits with me or cuddles like he used to, we play together but other than that he really only interacts with me The fact that you feel hurt comparing yourself to your ex’s new girlfriend is enough evidence that he failed to treat you the way you would like to be treated, and so you were right to get rid of him. She’s all over him strictly because he’s good looking. and now she has to ex-bf who cheated on her and dumped her for another woman. I am a queen; I have got this handled. john52461 +1 y. But we were still happy mostly while we’re together. never say never this time on ITS NEVER FOR ME . i know it’s easier said than done, but you are more than beautiful because you’re you. If you want to get better ask her what feels good while you're engaged in it. TikTok video from Family Feud (@familyfeud): “Name something an ex-girlfriend was better at than your wife. When your ex downgrades badly. 4. Sooner or later someone much, much better than your ex, and far more attractive will choose to be with you as well. Thank you so much. Yeah OP maybe your brother does everything 10x better than you, but to be fair, I feel like any decent guy probably does 10x I was wondering why suddenly I was bothered by my girlfriends previous love life. Reply reply My(32F) Ex Husband's(33M) girlfriend(31F) has a problem with me when I drop the kids off A month ago my girlfriend moved in with me. It is never easy to get into another relationship when you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend. I wouldn't trade her for anything :) About 4 1/2 years ago, my high school girlfriend and I broke up. This is a her problem. trusting is hard, trusting someone that doesn't trust you is twice as hard and mabye even dumb. She told me she’s not sure about his personality. and i like the outdoor and doing crazy things) To my (not so) surprise, I found out that I was smaller than I had initially thought, and that pretty much ruined me. He must be happier because I still haven He recently just said he wants to be better than all my ex BFs Not in just sex, but with being more cut and doing more outdoor things (my last ex was pretty cut - so is my current even better shape in fact. Recently she started seeing someone new and has just recently told me that he is way better in bed than I was. Realistically, it is probably a good thing that nobody will love you like that. 9K Comments. Yeah, I know, who isn’t? But I’m not talking about the typical you-don’t-know-what-you’ve-got-‘til-it’s-gone discomfort we all feel when someone we If you feel anxiety around never doing better than your ex, then you can take that anxious energy and funnel it into becoming the next greatest iteration of yourself. So, instead of obsessing over finding the perfect person, focus on building a strong, healthy relationship, no matter who it’s with. I'm happy for you that you overcame it with someone. He never wanted to travel or support me, he constantly called me stupid, and other things, despite the fact I learnt his language proficiently, paid my own way and have many qualifications and degrees under my belt. I know of course, it doesn't concern me, she did nothing wrong, and our relationship has nothing to do with her past, especially because I know that she has just feelings for me. Now it's starting to become serios. That type of thinking in my girlfriend/wife would make me resent those past relationships she has had for multiple My GF is very athletic: she's a track athlete (pole vault) and I am a nerdy dude. when I found out my ex sucked two black guys ducks at a party cause she was drunk that really affected me to the point of I have a confession to make: I’m jealous of my ex-husband’s new girlfriend. you love him and you know he is good for you then you should be with him whether others like him or not as you know him better than anyone Not just yet, but there's tons of people out there better than my lying, cheating ex. to make it worse the very first time i brought this up to him he refused to say anything bad about her (he never rly has in general) which i guess isn’t bad within itself but My boyfriend said that since he doesn’t need a lot of compliments he’s not used to giving them, but with practice on his end and patience on my end, it’s gotten a lot better. My girlfriends ex was better in bed than me. I’ve been in a very strange spot recently and having trouble sorting my feelings on the situation. She said hi, I said hi -- nothing out of the ordinary. I have 2 jobs but he made a lot more than me. She just went back with her ex that had a lot of money but disrespected her and couldn't give her the sex she wanted. Talking with my girlfriend later that night, she asked if I ever kept in touch with people I've hooked up with. My Ex Won’t Leave Me Alone (4 Things You Must Do) How To Stop Comparing Yourself To His I only made it a few months and then I was back on a dating app and sleeping with a woman who is very nice. Time changes people- whether they like it or not. This is probably the best reminder you could hear. name something your ex girlfriend is The process of getting an ex boyfriend or girlfriend back can be challenging, and this is even more so the case when your ex has moved on. When a client tells me their ex upgraded and asks me what to do, I immediately know the issue. i know this for a fact because he’s having a hard time moving on, i’m his first love and he couldn’t imagine himself being with someone else nor me being in diff relationship. I think my ex is an outlier in that respect. I'm heading to community college, I'm terrible at sports, I did nothing in high school (besides keep my grades up) with my redeeming traits being playing guitar and piano. And you have no remorse what doing it. Although I don't want to care about it becuase I shouldn't, but sometimes it hurts like hell. You lied to her, started using dating apps, cheated, and then lied again. This is a controversial take but I’m not going to sit here and sugarcoat stuff for you. She was the main reason I went there, and now it's too late to cancel. Fast forward about 10 years after we break up. Anyone is better than your ex and the sooner you realise this the easier rejection and heart break becomes. I think this is one of the underlying fears that we all have going through a brea My girlfriend is waaay hotter than I am. It happens to the best of us and usually, there's really nothing to Why? Because he’s Leo, I need to get over my ex, I want to stop thinking about my ex, and I want to create jealousy and drama. On the other hand, I prefer to dress comfortable and am definitely no fitness model, but I am trying to work out more at the gym. I can’t even imagine a future where I don’t want Ex’s new girlfriend is significantly better than me . Were really good friends and do almost everything together. I needed to hear that. I knew I was completely over my ex when I broke up with the other guy after 6 months and my ex came running back to me Hey guys, new account for this; but my girlfriend still talks to her ex boyfriend all the time and it absolutely kills me when she does. 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My ex is better than my girlfriend. Basically grew up together in a way.